In my experience the guys most solid in themselves are the most open to change anyway. There is nothing wrong at all with being sexy and giving Voronezh women some extra pleasure. David Beckham changes his hairstyle every year or two, it doesn't mean he is being unauthentic. If you have this mindset of "thats my style, she either likes it or she doesn't" and are like stuck completely trying to prove that you are attractive, or and are completely unopen to new ideas, then rejection will probably bother you because you will get lots of it. Such as a really attractive woman is one who is really comfortable with her body and is proud of it, and loves it, and at the same time works out and keeps in good shape, its similar for men. If the same Voronezh woman is totally comfortable with herself but is overweight, then she won't have near the same success. Same as you, love yourself to the maximum, and commit to daily attractiveness activity. As long as your efforts to make yourself more beautiful is coming from the right place you'll do well.

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Why Rejection Hurts You? You just aren't meeting enough women. Especially women you really like. You are thinking of yourself in the wrong way. There is a gap between how good you think you are and the results reality is giving you. You need to eat some humble pie, and change your attitude. The worst attitude to have is the "girls have it wrong" mindset. You are thinking that rejection is to do with 'you', and not your game. Let me tell you its mostly your game. I've known guys who were complete losers who could pull more Voronezh women than anyone. And amazing guys who couldn't get laid. Rejection most of the time has nothing to do with you at all, thats why taking it personally is so silly. You have fake confidence. You show confidence but its build on the beach. Rejection gives you a dash of consciousness that questions your fake self-belief. Guys with real confidence don't care about rejection because they are really solid in their belief for themselves, guys with fake confidence need success with women because their are not getting in from inside themselves. Being totally naive to the real percentages and strike rates. When you start out, 20 or 30 straight flakes is normal, so is a 90-95% flake rate when you get to be okay. This will totally change in a few months. I read about guys getting one flake and getting angry. Are they kidding? Get over yourself completely, and then get completely over yourself. Learn anything at all, and see if you get it straight away. You get too much validation from being good with women.

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I do see lots of guys take pickup really seriously. Like they view being a member of a lair as a real commitment with responsibilities, there is a competitive component, and a status and hierarchy, and pickup is their real no.1 hobby and the thing they are most really into. It wouldn't surprise me that if you taking so much of your identity from pickup and women, and it was such a big part of your life, that rejection would have much greater meaning for you personally. All I can say is that the less of a big deal rejection is to you, the faster you will learn. Everybody gets rejected. Even the Voronezh guys who are really good. It doesn't mean anything bad about you. I've had more rejection than anybody. There was a period when I couldn't get laid to save my life. Shit happens. Get other stuff going on in your life, and let women just be that fun side that really doesn't matter all that much to you because other parts of your life make you really happy. Voronezh women are the cream on top of dessert, not the full 3 course meal. You are not learning. I personally reject rejection. If you get a failed seduction attempt, but you learn something really awesome that you will have forever, is that a fail? The more you learn, the less you will care about rejection. You'll learn the most from your worst nights, your worst rejections, and your worst experiences. Be grateful for them. Taking the whole "this is me, and I don't care if she likes it or doesn't like, I'm not changing, authentic, thing" too far. This is what you see fat girls say in their internet dating profiles; "I just want someone to like me for me". I'm all for personal acceptance, being yourself, being authentic, and being 100% comfortable and proud of yourself, you need to be. But you still need to have an open mind for improvement.

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Learning how to deal with rejection in dating can be one of the hardest lessons to learn when you are meeting new people. For most, rejection is a painful experience but it does get easier using a few tools and mindsets that are geared towards success and positivity. Personally, it does not bother me one little millimeter, not even a drop of care, if it doesn't work out with a girl. Even if she seems to be the most amazing girl on the planet who can shoot laser beams out of her breasts. Like seriously it does not even register in my awareness, I instantly forget about it. The most common thing I see is guys experiencing emotion when it does't work out with a particular Voronezh girl, or girls in a more general sense. It might be anger, dissapointment, frustration, annoyance, or any host of negative emotions. This demonstrates that you are thinking about it the wrong way.

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If you get angry or experience any negative emotion with a failed attempt, then you are obviously taking rejection personally. The first thing I want to point out is never get angry at girls. It is completely pointless. They are just behaving in their instinctual evolutionary programmed way. You won't change them. Its like being angry at gravity, its completely dumb. If you are falling out of a 3rd story window gravity is a complete bitch. If you know how to snowboard gravity is completely awesome. You can't change gravity but you can alter how you are working with it. I don't care if you have immense value, you are awesome in bed, you have money, you are the coolest guy since the beatles, or if you are way out of her league, these things are irrelevant. In fact if you are thinking that you are entitled to something because of these things that is the easiest and fastest way to be unattractive. The entitlement mindset is the no.1 reason why successful guys struggle with women.

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